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Hello, my name is Eric and I am currently fundraising for my fathers funeral cost/burial/tomestone.

I grew up in a small family of 4; mother, father, brother, and I. I was fortunate enough to be born and raised in the city of San Francisco. My life was ordinary, but things changed back in 2002. I always thought I had the perfect family. I looked up to my father because he was literally a man. He had his ordeals, goals, and motivation. He did not allow anyone to set him back to accomplish what he desires, but most importantly, he was a loving father. However, things changed when my mother and I found out that he had an affair with another woman back in mainland china. It literally broke my heart knowing that my father and mother might soon divorce, but something deep down tells me that he still loved us. The nights when my father weren't around still haunts me to this very day, but I kind of grew into it. That sense of protection that he gave us was gone because he wasn't around.

Around 3 years later, he started showing up in my life again. I wasn't used to his presence because nobody was there for me through my years of middle school. On family orientation day, I was the only child being there alone. I felt worthless when i looked around and see happy families. I wish I had not a perfect, but complete family. In 2009, In 2009, my father starts to get more involved in our life. I was quite surprised because he was never liked this. He worked extra long hours at his dental office and sometimes even work while he stayed over with us. Now, in 2014, I finally realized why he changed all of a sudden.

He was aware of his health depreciating, but did not know what. He tried to work endlessly to support us financially, yet we were so ungrateful of his help and treated him poorly. In 2012, he was diagnosed with cancer, but never accepted treatment because his bestfriend's brother also with the same type of cancer died soon after the treatment. Being in denial, and not accepting help from the love ones around him. He is no longer here and I am regretful to say, I lost my father. Dad, I miss how you used to cook for us whenever mother allowed you to stay over at our house. I miss how you would constantly lecture brother and I that life is beautiful, but you must try in order to accomplish goals in life. I miss how we would have our father and son karaoke nights over at your friends house. Father, I wish you were still here... My father's brother agreed to pay for all funeral cost, but as a son. I feel like I should contribute as much as I can. I am not hoping to get what my goal states, but any amount would help.

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Ah very sad to hear about your dad. I would donate if i didn't have some money issues myself. Anyway get well and take care.
 
Having lost my mother to illness I understand what you are going through. I am sorry for your loss.
 
I lost my Father as well when I was 5 years of age. His life was taken from him from a drunk driver. I lost my Grandmother to breast cancer in March of this yr. The pain you feel is something that gets better over time but still the love you have for that person never goes away. We honor the memory of our loved ones by how we choose to live our lives.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
 
Thank you so much for the kind words my friends. Disregard the donation. I came up with another way to fund for my expenses. It's so nice to hear back from such a warm community.
 
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